"Sex Confessions" is a series featuring your naughtiest bedroom secrets and fantasies. Some will sound familiar, others may give you ideas, and all will turn you on (well most). You might want to sit down for this.
Today's sex confession comes from a 30-something mom from Virginia who has been married for 12 years. She has an awesome sex life with her husband -- they are just as kinky now as when they were dating. Maybe even more kinky sometimes. But it may be because of her very active imagination. She's married to a man and has never been with a woman, but sometimes she pretends that he is a she. Yes, one of her fantasies is to be with a woman, so what she does is creates a whole scenario in her mind that her husband is a woman during sex. Check out what else she has to say ....
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I love my husband and I don't want to leave him for anyone -- man or woman. But I do love to fantasize that he isn't him -- that he is a she. It's a fantasy that is an all-day-long thing for me. Sometimes when I have a moment to daydream, I cook up a story in my head that I met a gorgeous woman somewhere and she flirts with me. It could be anywhere -- even a supermarket. So in my mind, I meet this hot woman in the grocery store, we connect, we flirt, we end up making out. And then back at my house. Then I'm back to reality and I wait for my husband to get home from work, dinner is eaten, and the kids are in bed. That's when I pick up that fantasy where I left off. Only when I feel my husband's lips on my body, I pretend they belong to her -- my fantasy lady. Everything he does is really done by her in my mind. I'm getting excited just thinking about it now.
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I have never told my husband that I have pretended he was another person when we have sex. I'm not sure how he would feel about it. Maybe it wouldn't be as hard to deal with for him knowing it was a woman, but I don't ever want to make him feel insecure. Because he has nothing to feel insecure about. I love him. I love our sex life. I just like to role play in my head now and then.
Do you have this kind of fantasy? Should she tell her husband or do you think it's no big deal?
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