Hamas terrorists raped and mutilated Israeli women and girls. Where are #MeToo warriors?

Appalling. That’s the only word that describes the response by progressive women and women’s rights groups to the clear evidence of what Hamas terrorists did to women and girls in their brutal attack on Israel Oct. 7.

When they started in force a few years ago, the Women’s March and #MeToo movement centered on the idea that we must “believe women” when they say what’s happened to them. No proof or due process needed. Just their word.

It’s obvious now that those hashtags came with a huge asterisk: These groups support only the women they deem worthy.

In the face of reports of mass rape, mutilation and murder of Israeli women (and plenty of corroborating proof and eyewitness testimony), the reaction from too many women’s rights organizations, professors, journalists, congresswomen and citizens has been either to ignore the fact it happened; cast doubt on the fact it happened; or equivocate by comparing the horror these Israeli women experienced with Palestinians suffering because of Israel’s justified retaliation on the terrorists who perpetrated these acts.

As Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu asked this week: “I say to the women’s rights organizations, to the human rights organizations, you’ve heard of the rape of Israeli women, horrible atrocities, sexual mutilation? Where the hell are you?”

It’s a good question.

Demonstrators against UN Women hold pictures of Israeli women being held hostage in Gaza during a rally in London on Dec. 3, 2023.
Demonstrators against UN Women hold pictures of Israeli women being held hostage in Gaza during a rally in London on Dec. 3, 2023.

UN far too slow to recognize Hamas' atrocities against women

Let me give you a few examples.

UN Women, the United Nations entity that purportedly fights for women “empowerment” and against sexual violence, took nearly two months to recognize "gender-based atrocities" by Hamas.

UN Women also bungled a weak attempt to call out the terrorist group late last month, when it posted something on social media but then promptly deleted it.

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UN Women has had plenty to say about women and girls in Gaza, but no condemnation of the acts that started this conflict.

That finally changed this month, after a weekslong pressure campaign from grassroots groups like “Me Too Unless UR a Jew” and others like former Meta executive Sheryl Sandberg, who has called out the silence of UN Women and other groups. It’s shocking it took this level of shaming for a women’s rights organization to call out Hamas for its atrocities.

Former Meta executive Sheryl Sandberg speaks during special United Nations event on Dec. 4, 2023, to address sexual violence during Hamas' terrorist attack on Oct. 7.
Former Meta executive Sheryl Sandberg speaks during special United Nations event on Dec. 4, 2023, to address sexual violence during Hamas' terrorist attack on Oct. 7.

Sandberg helped organize a presentation at U.N. headquarters on Monday, at which evidence of widespread sexual violence was presented through wrenching firsthand testimony from witnesses.

“Silence is complicity,” she told those gathered.

Women defending terrorists?

UN Women’s actions are egregious, but its lackluster response is far from isolated.

For instance, Briahna Joy Gray, a progressive podcaster and the press secretary for Bernie Sanders’ 2020 presidential run, had the audacity to write this to her large following on X, formerly Twitter: “ ‘Believe all women’ was always an absurd overreach: woman should be heard, claims should be investigated, but evidence is required. The same is true of the allegations out of Israel. But also, this isn’t a ‘believe women’ scenario bc no female victims have offered testimony.”

Gray wrote this on the evening of the same day that Sandberg’s event took place at the U.N. Perhaps Gray has overlooked the fact that firsthand testimony isn’t possible in several cases because Hamas terrorists slaughtered their rape victims.

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There are numerous accounts of college students or college groups speaking in support of Hamas and its actions on Oct. 7. And a law professor (also a woman) posed that Israel was playing up reports of rape to justify its actions in Gaza.

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And then there was the recent spectacle at the Oakland City Council meeting in California. One council member dared suggest calling for condemnation of Hamas' acts, and all hell broke loose. Several women who are members of the community spoke at the meeting in defense of Hamas and its tactics, while also denying the rape and horror the terrorists perpetrated. (Please watch the video.)

Not to be outdone, Rep. Pramila Jayapal, a Democrat from Washington state who is the Congressional Progressive Caucus chairwoman, last weekend gave a “both sides” response when pushed by CNN’s Dana Bash about why progressive women have been silent about what happened Oct. 7.

Jayapal reluctantly paid lip service to the “horrific” actions by Hamas but then quickly turned back to criticism of Israel: “I think we have to be balanced about bringing in the outrages against Palestinians.”

It’s one thing to point out how Palestinian civilians are suffering (in part because Hamas is using its people as human shields). But it’s something else entirely to skirt the atrocities and mass rape that Israel is defending itself against.

These aren’t morally equivalent situations, and it alarms me so many people – especially women who claim to stand for other women – can’t see the difference.

Ingrid Jacques is a columnist at USA TODAY. Contact her at or on X, formerly Twitter: @Ingrid_Jacques

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