Sue Barker on Cliff Richard fling: ‘If I knew I’d still be hearing about it 40 years later, I wouldn’t have gone near him’

·TV Reporter, Yahoo Entertainment UK
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Singer Sir Cliff Richard,  and former British tennis star and television sports presenter Sue Barker, at The London Arena in Docklands, for the York tennis challenge cup for the charity Children in Crisis.   (Photo by Sean Dempsey - PA Images/PA Images via Getty Images)
Sir Cliff Richard and Sue Barker have remained friends despite his comments. (PA)

Sue Barker has opened up about her brief fling with Sir Cliff Richard, admitting if she'd known he would still be talking about her in interviews 40 years on, she'd never have agreed to a date.

The former tennis star, who has just retired from her role hosting the BBC's coverage of The Championships at Wimbledon, wrote about her frustrations at his comments that he "didn't love her quite enough to marry her" in her new book which was revealed by Mail Online.

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Sir Cliff spotted Barker while she was celebrating after a tennis tournament in Brighton with his Shadows bandmates in 1981 and asked her on a date.

Although at the time Barker was only 25 while Sir Cliff was 41, they enjoyed a brief relationship of less than a year with Barker saying they "hadn't taken it far". but after a period apart due to their hectic schedules Sir Cliff stopped contacting her and it fizzled out.

Cliff Richard with Sue Barker, she was one of the participants in Cliff's 1st Pro-Celebrity Tennis Tournament in December 1983.;    (Photo by Monitor Picture Library/Avalon/Getty Images)
The pair briefly dated in the 80s. (Getty Images)

They have stayed friends, but Barker wrote: "The only thing we fell out over was the fact that he kept harping on about me in interviews — ‘I didn’t love her enough to propose,’ and so forth."

Barker, now 66, said that the comments had "really upset" her and that she had been desperate for Sir Cliff to meet someone else so that he would stop mentioning her.

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The former Question of Sport host wrote: "If someone had told me that my relationship with Cliff would last a few months but I’d still be hearing about it 40 years later, I wouldn’t have gone near him. Frankly, it looks silly now that he’s still talking about a relationship that was never really more than a friendship."

British tennis player Sue Barker poses with singer Cliff Richard on October 25, 1983. (Photo by Jack Kay/Express/Getty Images)
Sue Barker says she has been frustrated by Sir Cliff Richard's comments. (Getty Images)

She married Lance Tankard, a Met Police detective, and said that the interviews had been upsetting for him, too.

The couple had woken up to the newspaper headline "Why I Couldn’t Marry Sue — by Cliff" the morning after their wedding and Barker says she has "begged" Cliff to respect her marriage by stopping the comments, even appealing to his agent and manager over the years.

Adding that "it has been frustrating", she wrote that the idea of her "waiting at the altar for him" was completely false.

She added: "Yes, I really enjoyed our early friendship, but continuing to harp on about me simply isn’t fair, not just to me but to Lance, who has been constantly reminded why someone else wouldn’t marry his wife. It’s not respectful."

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