145 Spicy Never Have I Ever Questions That Will Melt the Ice
Jordan Lye
Who doesn’t love a game that forces you to get real and dig into the good stuff — particularly when spicy never have I ever questions are involved?
Whether you’re looking to go deeper (and make things juicier) with a crush or to dish the dirt with friends, never have I ever is a solid go-to for secret swapping. And if we’re really being honest with ourselves, it’s the spicy never have I evers that keep us coming back. They’re as great for seeing friends squirm and getting some laughs as they are for turning up the temperature with someone you want to know better that way. That goes for established partnerships, too! In fact, asking spicy never have I ever questions for couples can be a great, low pressure way to open the door to bigger sex questions about desire and pleasure. Call it a game of truth or, well, truth!
Need a quick refresher on the rules? If you’re playing with a group, all players start by holding up 10 fingers. Then, pass around this list (or write it down on tiny slips of paper for people to pull from a jar, so everyone is genuinely surprised!). Each person takes a turn reading off a spicy never have I ever. If you’ve done the thing mentioned, put your finger down. The game continues until only one person has any fingers up — making them the winner! Word to the wise: It’s probably a good idea to establish in advance if you’ll allow any skips, and if so, how many. (Don’t force anyone to share if they’re uncomfortable, though!)
If you’re asking never have I ever spicy questions for couples, you can still play by putting fingers down when one of you has done the deed in question. But don’t focus so much on who wins. The goal here is just to learn new — and potentially hot — things about each other.
Below, we’ll jump straight in with the steamy stuff — because we know that’s why you’re here! But we’ll also include some juicy never have I evers about crushes, dating, and relationships that are a little softer, but still revealing. That way, you can play a never have I ever spicy round that covers all bases and audiences. Let the games begin!
Find below:
Spicy Never Have I Ever Questions That Go There
Never have I ever pretended to be bad at something to get someone to “teach” me.
Never have I ever flirted with someone I knew was already taken.
Never have I kissed someone within an hour of meeting them.
Never have I ever kissed more than one person in a single night.
Never have I ever kissed someone just to make someone else jealous.
Never have I ever had a crush on a friend and acted on it.
Never have I ever sent a bold “I miss you” message late at night.
Never have I ever sent a suggestive selfie.
Never have I ever wanted someone just because they were hard to get.
Never have I ever felt jealous about someone’s ex.
Never have I ever gone on a secret date without telling anyone.
Never have I ever knowingly led someone on.
Never have I ever liked two people at the same time.
Never have I ever run into an ex on a date.
Never have I ever left something behind just as an excuse to go back.
Never have I ever intentionally worn something daring for someone.
Never have I ever teased someone just because I liked how they reacted.
Never have I ever been told I was a good kisser.
Never have I ever made out in public.
Never have I ever kissed someone and not known their name.
Never have I ever gone skinny-dipping with someone.
Never have I ever had a flirty moment in a hot tub.
Never have I ever kissed someone who was “off-limits.”
Never have I ever sent a message that I hoped would make someone blush.
Never have I ever left a party to go somewhere more private with someone.
Never have I ever been called out for being too flirty.
Never have I ever kissed someone somewhere unexpected.
Never have I ever let someone kiss me somewhere other than my lips in public.
Never have I ever received a text that made me blush in public.
Never have I ever kissed someone in a way that made me feel dizzy.
Never have I ever gotten a hickey.
Never have I ever given someone a hickey.
Never have I ever gone farther than kissing in a car.
Never have I ever had a crush on someone else while in a relationship.
Never have I ever danced provocatively in front of someone.
Never have I ever worn a complete set of lingerie.
Never have I ever been caught in a compromising position.
Never have I ever had a makeout session turn into something more while others were in earshot.
Never have I ever sent a flirty text to the wrong person and rolled with it.
Never have I ever sent a suggestive text to someone I was in the same room with.
Never have I ever used a vibrator.
Never have I ever had a sex dream about someone in this room.
Never have I ever had a crush on someone a friend was dating.
Never have I ever had a friends-with-benefits dynamic.
Never have I ever made a sexy playlist.
Never have I ever had a terrible first kiss with someone.
Never have I ever had a favorite movie sex scene.
Never have I ever engaged in any kind of butt play.
Never have I ever listened to audio erotica.
Never have I ever tried something in the bedroom that I saw in a movie.
Never have I ever flirted to get something I wanted.
Never have I ever let someone take the lead in the bedroom when I normally wouldn’t.
Never have I ever made out with someone in a place I wasn’t supposed to be.
Never have I ever had an unexpected “almost” moment with someone.
Never have I ever broken the “no kissing on the first date” rule.
Never have I ever gotten someone’s number just to see if I could get it.
Never have I ever hooked up with an ex.
Never have I ever hooked up with a friend.
Never have I ever hooked up with someone I had no intention of ever seeing again.
Never have I ever hooked up with a coworker.
Never have I ever tried to avoid someone I hooked up with.
Never have I ever had a rebound fling.
Never have I ever hooked up with someone I met while traveling.
Never Have I Ever Questions About Crushing
Never have I ever had a secret crush for more than a month.
Never have I ever been the one to ask a crush out.
Never have I ever had a crush on a friend.
Never have I ever had a crush on someone I worked with.
Never have I ever flirted with someone just to make my crush jealous.
Never have I ever had a crush on someone’s ex.
Never have I ever accidentally texted a crush the wrong message.
Never have I ever decided a crush couldn’t work out because of their zodiac sign.
Never have I ever had a crush on someone older than me.
Never have I ever had a crush on someone younger than me.
Never have I ever had a crush on someone I met online.
Never have I ever had a crush on someone who already had a partner.
Never have I ever had a crush on a person from my past.
Never have I ever gotten caught staring at my crush.
Never have I ever sent my crush a text and regretted it.
Never have I ever liked someone before they liked me back.
Never have I ever made a crush a playlist.
Never have I ever tried to be friends with my crush to get closer to them.
Never have I ever used a friend to get a crush to talk to me.
Never have I ever picked up a new hobby only to impress a crush.
Never have I ever had a crush on someone my friends didn’t approve of.
Never have I ever had a crush on someone I knew I’d never be with.
Never have I ever had a crush on an Aquarius.
Never have I ever had a crush on a Pisces.
Never have I ever had a crush on an Aries.
Never have I ever had a crush on a Taurus.
Never have I ever had a crush on a Gemini.
Never have I ever had a crush on a Cancer.
Never have I ever had a crush on a Leo.
Never have I ever had a crush on a Virgo.
Never have I ever had a crush on a Libra.
Never have I ever had a crush on a Scorpio.
Never have I ever had a crush on a Sagittarius.
Never have I ever had a crush on a Capricorn.
Never have I ever lost sleep over a crush.
Never have I ever accidentally liked something from a long time ago on a crush’s social media page.
Never have I ever changed my plans just to be where my crush was.
Never have I ever posted something on social media specifically to get my crush’s attention.
Never have I ever intentionally played hard to get with my crush.
Never have I ever social media stalked a crush’s exes.
Never have I ever saved screenshots of my crush’s texts.
Never have I ever sent a crush a “you up?” text.
Never have I ever fantasized about kissing someone I’m playing this game with.
Never Have I Ever Questions About Love and Dating
Never have I ever Googled someone before a date.
Never have I ever lied about something on a date to seem more interesting.
Never have I ever accidentally called someone the wrong name on a date.
Never have I ever ordered something awkward to eat (like spaghetti) on a date.
Never have I ever dated someone only for their looks.
Never have I ever been more than 30 minutes late to a date.
Never have I ever left in the middle of a date.
Never have I ever used a cheesy pick-up line that surprisingly worked.
Never have I ever waited hours to reply to a text just to seem busy.
Never have I ever pretended not to care when I was actually really into someone.
Never have I ever planned a date that went completely wrong.
Never have I ever canceled plans with friends for a date.
Never have I ever gone on a date just for the food.
Never have I ever been on a date that felt like it belonged in a movie.
Never have I ever taken multiple different dates to the same spot.
Never have I ever celebrated a monthiversary.
Never have I ever met an S.O.’s family.
Never have I ever taken a vacation with someone within a month of meeting them.
Never have I ever pictured what our kids would like with a partner.
Never have I ever used a pet name for a partner.
Never have I ever thought about what song would be “our” song with an S.O.
Never have I ever been scared to tell someone how I really felt.
Never have I ever disliked a partner’s friends.
Never have I ever pictured myself marrying someone.
Never have I ever dated someone because I was bored.
Never have I ever said “I love you” first.
Never have I ever said “I love you” without being sure I meant it.
Never have I ever been swept off my feet.
Never have I ever felt like someone’s touch was electric.
Never have I ever told myself I could fix someone.
Never have I ever imagined being old with someone.
Never have I ever felt I let someone get away.
Never have I ever had my heart broken.
Never have I ever broken someone else’s heart.
Never have I ever loved someone I knew wasn’t good for me.
Never have I ever gotten back together with an ex.
Never have I ever fantasized about getting back together with an ex.
Never have I ever been in love.
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