16 Really, Really, Really Debatable Sex Moves Performed On Women That Porn Has Tried To Normalize
There's nothing wrong with watching porn. But what I do take issue with are the expectations it puts on women in the bedroom. You don't have to enjoy (or do, for that matter) any of the things you see on there!!! That's why I loved when redditor u/breadnbed asked users, "What has porn normalized that is not quite normal?" Here are the 16 top-rated responses:
1."When the fuck did turning her butthole inside out become a thing?"
2."Huge dicks. No, a horse-sized dick that can stay hard for two hours isn't normal. It's also not needed by any means."
3."Dudes just going as fast as possible with no lube or much foreplay at all. Most women have awkward or straight-up painful sex from dudes doing this in their early sex life."
4."Being loud the second someone touches it down there."
5."Being rough without asking for consent, like talking about it beforehand. Never, ever just choke or grab someone."
6."Taking it out the back and putting it in the front. Never do that unless you want severe infections."
7."That sex begins after about 30 seconds of kissing. I love making out for a long time before getting into anything else."
8."Men having multiple orgasms, seemingly back to back with no refractory period."
9."Surprise/impulsive anal. Actually doing anal in a way that is both safe and doesn't leave everything coated in poop requires a non-trivial amount of prep."
10."Women apparently reaching orgasm from sucking a guy's dick alone, judging by the sounds they make."
11."Women having orgasms by penetration alone. Not that it is uncommon, but men seem to think that’s all it takes. Some women need a lot of stimulation in other areas! A dick hammering into me does nothing for me at all. Also, angles, angles, angles."
12."Double penetration."
13."The expectation that everyone should be ready and willing to have sex all the time and that longer is better."
14."Three to four fingers on the clit rubbing up and down as hard and fast as humanly possible. GENTLE people, slow down."
15."Simultaneous orgasm. While it can happen, and it's magical...it's not the norm."
16.And finally, "Finishing on your partner's face. It wasn't really a thing, or a popular thing the way it seems to be now."
