The Best Would You Rather Questions for Couples to Ask Each Other
Just because you’re in a long-term relationship doesn’t mean the fun of getting to know each other has to be over. Whether you’ve been together for a couple of weeks or a couple of decades, there’s always more to learn about your partner. So the next time you’re planning a date night, skip dinner or the movies and try out some fun would you rather questions for couples.
Making your way through a list of “would you rather” questions is a great game for couples. It’s a fun, flirty way to deepen your connection. Choose from funny questions to uncover new quirks and aspects of your personalities, flirty ones to spice things up, and meaningful prompts to deepen the conversation.
Meet the Expert: Joy Berkheimer, Ph.D., Relationship Therapist and Dating Coach.
Ahead, find the best “would you rather” questions for couples to enrich your partnership and have a bit of fun. We tapped Relationship Therapist and Dating Coach, Joy Berkheimer, Ph.D., for her expertise, so you can get a professional’s take too.
Funny “would you rather” questions to ask your partner
Would you rather spend your days off in bed, watching movies and eating ice cream and popcorn, or would you rather be outdoors, hiking all day, fending off the wild, and soaking in Vitamin D?
Would you rather wear sweatpants for the rest of your life (including funerals and weddings) or have to wear sparkles to everything?
Would you rather have every meal you eat for the rest of your life be a little too spicy, or a little too sweet?
Would you rather only have summers for the rest of your life or only winters?
Would you rather get stuck in an elevator with someone you hate or be stuck alone?
Would you rather not eat your favorite meal ever again or have to eat only that meal forever?
Would you rather be invisible or be able to read someone’s mind?
Would you rather have your forever home in a tiny town or a big city?
Would you rather be too hot or too cold forever?
Would you rather speak all the languages of the world or be able to speak to animals?
Would you rather go back 10 years into the past or go forward 10 years into the future?
Would you rather have a major pay raise or move to the place of your dreams?
Would you rather go to space or explore the depths of the ocean?
Would you rather endure a partner with bad breath or body odor?
Would you rather be the funniest person in the room or the most attractive?
Would you rather give up caffeine or alcohol forever?
Would you rather lose your sense of smell or your sense of taste?
Would you rather only be able to watch comedies or dramas for the rest of your life?
Would you rather always live alone or always live with roommates?
Would you rather be a contestant on The Bachelor or Survivor?
Would you rather be 30 minutes early to every appointment or 30 minutes late?
Would you rather be able to only listen to your favorite album forever or be able to listen to everything but your favorite album?
Flirty “would you rather” questions to ask your partner
Would you rather be the big spoon or the little spoon?
Would you rather have morning sex or late-night sex?
Would you rather receive a hot message, or a love note?
Would you rather receive cheek kisses or forehead kisses?
Would you rather have sex in the car or in the shower?
Would you rather I show you or tell you about my desires?
Would you rather have more role-play or more foreplay?
Would you rather give or receive a lap dance?
Would you rather have a sex playlist with classical music on it or hardcore rock?
Would you rather get a sensual shoulder rub or foot rub from your partner?
Would you rather only be able to be on the bottom during sex, or only on the top?
Would you rather only have sex in bed for the rest of your life or never be able to have sex in a bed again?
Would you rather have a cupboard full of sex toys or a cupboard full of hot outfits?
Would you rather never have oral sex again, or only have oral sex forever?
Would you rather be focused on being romantic or being dirty?
Would you rather show affection in public or in private?
Would you rather long, slow sex every time or always have a quickie?
Would you rather go skinny dipping or join the mile high club?
Would you rather kiss me here…or here?
What would you rather have an endless voucher book for your favorite meal or your best love-making session ever, to be repeated on demand? You can only have one book!
Would you rather we met in our teens or when we did?
Would you rather we do date night once a week or one week of date nights a month?
Meaningful “would you rather” questions to ask your partner
Would you rather lose the ability to see, or the ability to walk?
Would you rather know the date of your death or the cause of your death?
Would you rather achieve all of your career goals but have no time for family or have all the time for family but not achieve everything you want to at work?
Would you rather have no emotions or be able to deeply feel every little thing?
Would you rather forget your worst memory, or better remember your best memory?
Would you rather receive a thoughtful or expensive gift from your partner?
Would you rather have a partner with a possibly life-threatening job or a totally time-consuming job?
Would you rather be famous or unknown?
Would you rather have three great friends or 20 average friends?
Would you rather have six kids or not be able to have any?
Would you rather plan your days out or live for the moment?
Would you rather make your partner happy with a white lie or tell the blunt truth?
Would you rather give up your night’s sleep and resolve an issue or go to sleep and resolve it in the morning?
Would you rather have more money but less quality time together, or less money and more quality time together?
Would you rather be really personally fulfilled or really professionally fulfilled?
Would you rather keep our relationship closed and monogamous or be open to exploring other people?
Would you rather always be the center of attention or always be in the background?
Would you rather be able to change the past or see into the future?
Would you rather only be able to text or only be able to make phone calls for the rest of your life?
Would you rather never have kids or never have pets?
Would you rather be stuck at age 20 or be stuck at age 50 for the rest of your life?
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