Bride Mad After Her Brother's Girlfriend Spent Her Entire Bachelorette Party Crocheting: 'Super Rude'

A bride is asking Reddit users if she's in the wrong for requesting that her brother's girlfriend stop crocheting at her bachelorette party.

In a post on the platform's "Am I the A------" forum, the bride, 28, shared how a "super rude" guest, 36, at her bachelorette party last weekend "would insist on crocheting all the time, even during events and games."

The bride wasn't initially planning on inviting her brother's girlfriend of five months to her weekend bachelorette trip because she doesn't "know her well" but did so as a "favor" to him because he wanted her to have the "experience." However, the woman refused to participate in any activity, insisting she crochet instead.

"When I asked her to participate with us, she said that she took time off for the trip, and wanted to make the most of her 'vacation' by catching up on her crochet projects," the bride wrote. "And that playing games and hanging out with my friends wasn't 'fun' and she didn't want to 'waste' her days off."

The bride was fine with the woman crocheting at their shared cabin at night, but had a problem with her crocheting during the group activities, which she "insisted" on coming to. To make matters worse, she was crocheting a huge throw blanket and carried five cantaloupe-sized balls of yarn with her everywhere.

"My issue is that she was taking her crocheting with us to places like wine tasting, brunch, a museum tour, etc. It was super disrespectful in my eyes because she'd insist on coming yet wouldn't participate in the activity," she explained. "Honestly, I was bothered that she was crocheting when we were playing bridal games, but at least that was in our living room!"

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After the trip, the crocheter was "super peeved" that the bride "asked to limit her crocheting time," and feels like she deserves an apology. While the bride doesn't want the situation to come between her and her brother, she doesn't think an apology is warranted.

"My brother's been pestering me to apologize to her for ruining her trip," she said. "I personally don't feel like I should, because she shouldn't have come to a bachelorette party if she didn't want to do bachelorette-y things!"

The bride pointed out that the woman "doesn't have social anxiety" and simply didn't think the activities were worth her time and attention.

"She just thought our activities were boring and a waste of her time," the bride noted. "I overheard her calling my party a 'basic b---- bachelorette,' but I didn't want to confront her because I didn't want to cause drama."

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In the comments section, Reddit users said that the bride's brother's girlfriend was in the wrong. They agreed that crocheting during the entire trip was "disrespectful" and lacked etiquette, and that if anyone should apologize it should be the crocheter. They also said that treating the bride's bachelorette party "as a personal vacation for herself" and demanding an apology from her for ruining "her trip" was selfish.

"She's got absolutely no manners and is impossible to please. Honestly, tell your brother and definitely don't apologize," one person commented. "She's just classless. You don't invite yourself to something and then make fun of it."

"She asked to be invited, and insisted on coming along for all the activities," another user wrote. "But then she insisted on crocheting the entire time as a way to let you know how bored she was, she was talking s--- about you the entire time, and now SHE wants an apology?"

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