Bride Mad at Her Teen Sister for Taking Attention Away from Her on Her Wedding Day

A sister is wondering if she was wrong to play in a volleyball game the day of her sister's wedding.

In a post on Reddit's AITA forum shared on Sunday, April 6, a young woman recounted the day her sister got married — and why the bride came down on her for supposedly drawing the attention away from her on her wedding day.

The sister, 18, had a school volleyball match on the same day as the ceremony. Luckily, the game was in the morning and the wedding was at night, and thus presented no time conflict for the sister.

A number of family and relatives were visiting for the wedding, and when they heard about the sister's game, they decided to attend. She didn't personally ask anyone to attend, the sister wrote. Her team won, and afterwards her family flooded her with questions, interest and support about her sport.

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She then returned home, where her sister, 24, was already preparing for the wedding.

The bride appeared visibly upset, so the sister asked what was wrong — assuming initially that something had gone awry logistically. But the bride instead told her sister that by bringing family along to the volleyball game, she had made the day about herself, when it was supposed to be the bride's big moment.

"I told her I can't control other people's reaction and that I didn't insist for anyone to come, but she was still upset," the sister wrote.

Wedding preparations took precedent, and they tabled the discussion. After the ceremony, as people lined up to greet the newlyweds, the sister told the bride that she still wanted to continue their earlier discussion. The bride shut her down, stating that it wasn't the time or place.

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Most in the comments agreed that the sister was in the right until she brought it up at the wedding. Partaking in activities she normally would — during a time that the bride didn't require her presence or attention — is no issue, and if family decided to attend the game on their own, the bride had no real reason to be upset.

Yet, by reminding the bride of a negative conversation during the reception, the sister was out of line, many comments read. Of all times to bring up an argument between sisters, the receiving line at a wedding is one of the worst, one comment claimed.

"Although it was a brief comment, why remind her of something negative right then?" one wrote. "Bring it up a while from now, if she still seems upset from it — after you let them enjoy the newlywed high."

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