Dakota Johnson And Chris Martin’s Complete Relationship Timeline And Rumoured Split

When Coldplay's Chris Martin 'consciously uncoupled' from his then-wife Gyneth Paltrow back in 2014, the frontman became decidedly more private about his relationships. So, since the beginning of his romance with Dakota Johnson in late 2017 to the pair getting 'secretly' engaged in December 2020, the couple have kept their relationship relatively low-key during their eight year courtship.

However, during this time, the A-listers have continuously made headlines for their romance and rumours of break ups.

Here, we bring you the rundown of their relationship:

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October 2017

Rumours of a relationship first arose when Johnson and Martin were spotted grabbing dinner at Sushi Park in Los Angeles. According to a People onlooker, the pair appeared 'cosy, laughing and affectionate' during the outing.

November 2017

By mid-November fans clocked Johnson at Coldplay's Buenos Aires concert. Lainey Gossip noted that it was the last show of the band's Head Full Of Dreams tour and that Johnson was viewing the show from a VIP-level vantage point.

December 2017

The following month, multiple sources confirmed to Us Weekly that the potential couple were an item. 'Dakota and Chris are definitely dating,' one source said. 'They've gotten to know each other really well and are very comfortable from one another. Chris sends Dakota his music to get her opinion. It's more than just a fling.'

A sighting at Nick Cave's concert in Israel seemed to confirm the news. Afterwards, they had dinner at Yam Sheva restaurant in Herzliya. 'They came in and they were really, really nice, like extremely nice. It was a surprise,' an eyewitness told the outlet. 'They sat with Nick Cave too. I didn't see them kiss or hold hands or anything like that. They ordered some starters and not a lot of food.'

January 2018

People obtained photos of Johnson and Martin at Soho House in Malibu, California. An eyewitness said: 'Chris and Dakota arrived together in Chris' car. They met up with friends and had a fun night. They both seemed very happy. They were flirty, and also left the restaurant together.'

A week later, People spotted the couple walking along the beach in Malibu, with a source noting that they had spent 'm0st of the weekend together.' The insider added: 'They seem to be getting more serious. On Friday, they had dinner with friends. They also hung out at Chris' house and went for a beach walk. They didn't see each other over the holidays and seem excited to be catching up now.'

People reported the pair also attended Stella McCartney's autumn/winter collection unveiling that year. They were said to have skipped the red carpet, but an onlooker noted that the couple stayed close once inside the event. 'They walked in holding hands and Dakota was not letting go—she was super into the PDA,' the eyewitness remembered. 'When Chris let go of her hand, she slipped her arm through his.'

Later that month, Dakota's father Don Johnson seemingly confirmed her relationship to Digital Spy. When asked about his daughter's romance he said, 'Yeah, that's... uh troubling, isn't it? No, she's a big girl, she can handle herself!'

February 2018

In mid-February, the couple appeared at Ellen DeGeneres' 60th birthday party, an event also attended by Paltrow and her then-fiancé Brad Falchuk. People obtained photos of the pair holding hands outside of the festivities while talking to actor Drew Barrymore.

June 2018

A few months later, the pair was spotted walking Johnson's dog, Zeppelin, around Malibu. People spoke to a source who gave insight into Johnson and Martin's relationship. 'For the past two weeks, they have spent a lot of time together,' the insider said. 'Chris lives in Malibu and Dakota seems to love hanging out there. They occasionally go for dinner with friends, but mostly have friends over at home. They go to the beach together, and walks around the neighbourhood. They seem to enjoy sharing a quiet life. It does seem they are getting more serious.'

July 2018

The following month, a Twitter user caught the couple at a Radiohead concert in Boston. They were seemingly on a double date with Breaking Bad's Aaron Paul and his wife, Lauren. 'They stood up for a couple of the ovations,' a concertgoer told People, noting that they sat for most of the show. Earlier, Martin and Johnson were seen strolling into the venue hand in hand.

September 2018

The weekend of Paltrow's wedding to Falchuk, Martin supported Johnson at the Global Citizen Festival in New York City. E! noted Martin's presence in the audience while Johnson spoke onstage about the power of sharing stories of sexual assault.

As further proof of the pair's bond, they seemingly got matching tattoos. E! spotted the similar ink when Johnson was photographed at the Venice Film Festival. On her left elbow, there was an infinity sign tattoo with two Xs. Days prior, Martin was seen at an event in Los Angeles with the same tattoo in a similar location.

October 2018

A week later, TMZ reported that Martin and Johnson were throwing a gender reveal party at his home. Photos of blue and pink balloon arches raised speculation that the couple could be expecting a baby. Both of Johnson's parents, including her mother Melanie Griffith, and celebrities such as Sean Penn and Julia Roberts were spotted at the event.

Shortly after, Johnson's rep denied the rumours to Us Weekly, clarifying that the celebrations were for a birthday party and not a gender reveal of any kind. On Ellen the following month, Johnson confirmed this herself, saying: 'Well, the only thing I'm pregnant with is a lot of really good ideas. But not any babies.'

November 2018

Around a year after Martin and Johnson were first spotted at Sushi Park, the couple returned to the restaurant for a casual dinner together. A source told Us Weekly around this time that the couple would 'be engaged soon. Chris is head over heels.' The insider also claimed that Martin was holding off on an engagement after Paltrow wed Falchuk two months prior. 'He wanted to make sure the kids didn't have too much change all at once,' the source said. 'He's a great dad.'

Martin spent Thanksgiving with Paltrow and their two children, Apple and Moses. A source told E!, 'Gwyneth thinks (Johnson) is lovely. She gets on very well with her and is happy for Chris. They've spent a good amount of time together and have a very nice friendship.'

April 2019

Johnson and Martin were photographed walking her dog barefoot around Malibu.

June 2019

The Sun reported that the couple split the month prior, to the surprise of close friends. 'Chris and Dakota were very easygoing and always seemed really happy together,' a source told the outlet. Meanwhile, the Express claimed that Johnson and Martin 'could not have been further apart' when it came to starting a family.

A source said: 'Chris made it clear he wants more kids as soon as possible but Dakota's career has really taken off and that's the last thing she wanted to think about right away. It got to the point, last month, where a light seemed to flick on in both their heads and they realised they were pulling in completely opposite directions - so they decided to call it a day.'

August 2019

Rumours of reconciliation begin when a Twitter user spotted Johnson and Martin at a wrap party for the actor's film, Covers.

Soon after the sighting, Us Weekly confirmed that the pair had reunited. The day after their initial spotting, Martin attended the Los Angeles premiere of Johnson's film, The Peanut Butter Falcon. E! also shared that the couple were back together and 'planning to spend more time together later this summer,' per a source.

Us Weekly reported that the couple's reconciliation came courtesy of Martin's ex, Paltrow. 'Gwyneth is the one who pushed them to do it,' a source said, noting that the two had bonded at an April event.

There could be some truth to that claim, as Martin, Paltrow, and their respective partners were all spotted in the Hamptons together in photos acquired by TMZ. Shortly after, Johnson and Martin enjoyed a date night at the East Village's Double Zero in New York City.

September 2019

Griffith, Johnson's mother, definitively commented on her daughter's relationship with Martin. 'I love my daughter’s boyfriend. I think that they're an awesome couple,' she told People. A source told an outlet at the time that privacy was of paramount concern for the pair. 'Dakota has been filming out of state, but most weekends she comes back to Malibu to spend time with Chris,' the insider said. 'They are very low-key together. They usually have friends over and rarely go out.'

October 2019

On October 4, it wasn't Martin wishing Johnson a happy birthday on social media. It was his ex, Paltrow, who shared a black-and-white photo of Johnson and her pet dog. 'Happy 30th birthday to this absolute gem 💙,' she captioned the celebratory post.

A few days later, E! reported on Johnson's 30th birthday bash in Malibu. Guests included Martin, Paltrow, and celebs such as Miley Cyrus and Robert Downey Jr. The report said Johnson and Martin arrived at the event together and spent most of the evening by each other's side. 'Dakota and Chris sat side by side watching different musical acts,' the source told E!. 'Dakota and Chris spent a lot of time together. They walked around holding hands or with his hand on her back. They seemed very happy.'

December 2019

Just before Christmas, Page Six spotted Johnson on a trip to Aspen with Martin, Paltrow, and the former couple's two children, Apple and Moses. In photos, Johnson locked arms with Apple while on a coffee run alongside Martin. On Christmas day, Paltrow shared an Instagram of herself and husband Falchuk in ski gear, indicating he was also on the family trip.

January 2020

Paltrow's support of her ex-husband's relationship continued into the new year. In a cover story interview with Harper's Bazaar, she had nothing but kind words for Johnson. 'I love her,' Paltrow said. 'I can see how it would seem weird because it’s sort of unconventional. But I think, in this case, just having passed through it iteratively, I just adore her. I always start to think of the ampersand sign—what else can you bring in, instead of being resistant to or being made insecure by? There’s so much juice in leaning in to something like that.'

She also spoke about the evolving nature of her dynamic with Martin. 'It’s not like there’s a finish line: "Oh, we consciously uncoupled; we’re done,"' she explained. 'It’s a lifelong commitment to constantly reinvent your relationship with your ex, which you do presumably because you have children together. I don’t see a reason to do it if you don’t have children together. Some people do. But I think we put all the hard work in at the beginning. I would say very rarely is it difficult now. We’ve learned how to communicate with each other. We love each other. We laugh. We have the best of each other. It’s really nice. It makes you feel like you don’t have to lose.'

February 2020

Martin was involved in a major career milestone for Johnson. On Valentine's Day, Coldplay released its music video f0r the song, 'Cry Cry Cry.' The romantic video's director was none other than Johnson, who made her directorial debut with the collaboration.

March 2020

The couple had a rare public outing with Martin's two children. The foursome were spotted by the Daily Mail strolling through Disneyland for the singer's 43rd birthday.

A few weeks later, Martin and Johnson enjoyed dinner at Crossroads Kitchen in Los Angeles, per E!. Johnson wore dark wide leg jeans, a hoodie, and black loafers for the outing, while Martin sported a long sleeve shirt, dark grey pants, and a blue baseball cap. During an interview with Architectural Digest a few days prior, Johnson had joked that 'the key to a healthy relationship' with Martin is having 'double sinks' in the bathroom.

Quarantine hasn't stopped the couple from sharing some adorable moments together. On March 26, Johnson's friend Olivia Wilde posted a video made by the pair with the caption, 'Dakota Johnson: Hand wash CHAMPION.' In the clip, Johnson stands in front of a kitchen sink as she demonstrates her hand washing technique. It's soon clear that the actor's 'hands' in the video were Martin's. The 'M' and 'A' tattoos on each of the wrists gave it away. Martin scrubbed his hands while Johnson spoke to the camera.

A few days later, Martin and Johnson made a rare public appearance togethe. Photographers snapped the couple walking arm-in-arm through Malibu with Johnson's dog on March 31.

February 2021

People reported that Johnson and Martin were going strong and are still spending time with Martin's kids his ex-wife and her husband. The two were living in the $12.5 million (£10 million) Malibu mansion Martin bought in October.

'Chris was always a big fan of Malibu,' a source told People. 'He loves the beach and often goes surfing and running.' The source added: 'She seems to enjoy it as much as Chris does. They both love the outdoors and often take beach strolls. They also support local restaurants.'

March 2021

Per the Daily Mail, Johnson had been fuelling rumours of her engagement to Martin by wearing an emerald ring on her left finger. Neither Johnson nor Martin confirmed the rumour.

April 2021

On April 24, Martin and Johnson were seen out in Malibu for a lunch and coffee date, while fans were still wondering if the two were planning to tie the knot. Johnson wore ripped jeans, a black spaghetti-strap top, black Adidas sneakers, and a green knit hat as Martin, who was barefoot, dressed in grey tracksuit bottoms and a black shirt, followed.

July 2021

Martin and Johnson were spotted enjoying a vacation in Palma De Mallorca, Spain, where they took a boat ride and were seen taking a leisurely stroll together. They each wore black baseball caps as they linked arms.

June 2022

Earlier in the month, Martin and Johnson were photographed together in New York City. They walked arm in arm, wearing matching pink and black outfits. A few weeks later, the couple were seen in London, where they grabbed dinner in Mayfair. Johnson wore a coat over a white button down and black pants, along with a pair of Converse trainers and a Gucci purse. Martin opted for a low-key black sweater, grey sweatpants, and knit beanie.

October 2022

Coldplay announced it would be postponing several shows in Brazil due to Martin coming down with a serious lung infection. Later that month, he and Johnson were spotted on a beachside stroll in their home city of Malibu. Johnson wore a white sweatshirt and grey tracksuit bottoms, while Martin paired a graphic T-shirt with a baseball cap and baggy pants.

November 2022

Johnson put on her own show in the audience at Martin's November 8 concert in Buenos Aires, Argentina. Johnson told Vanity Fair in July 2022 that she loves to tour with Coldplay when she's not working, and she apparently also loves dancing up a storm to her man's tunes.

When Johnson can't travel with him, Martin makes a point of visiting her. He stopped by Boston, Massachusetts, to see his girlfriend as she was filming the superhero movie Madame Web that summer.

March 2023

On the March 19 episode of the Conan O'Brien Needs A Friend podcast, Martin shared how Johnson made Coldplay reconsider accessibility at their shows by introducing him to new tactile technology.

'They are called SubPacs,' he explained. 'Dakota, my partner, gave me one as a gift because she saw someone online experiencing whatever they are experiencing with this—it's kind of like body armour —you put it on and plug it in and it connects to the base.'

Johnson had seen the technology being used online and told Martin that he 'should use this somehow.'

'So, we started using it and it's been so amazing and it should get better and better,' Martin continued. 'We have 10 or 20 now—every night—of those packs and so if you're hearing impaired we have an area where you sign up and you put on the pack and you can feel the show.'

He added that the SubPacs are expensive, but well-worth it because 'they are amazing and the things that people do to consider other people are just wonderful'.

April 2023

On the Saturday of Easter weekend, Johnson and Martin were seen in Malibu, California, going on a coffee run together. During the rare public outing, Johnson wore large sunglasses, a black hat, a pair of floral tapestry loose pants by Bode, Converse sneakers, and a Bruce Springsteen T-shirt. Martin wore a light grey T-shirt, matching tracksuit bottoms, and sneakers with a grey beanie. Johnson had her arm looped through Martin's as they walked together.

June 2023

On June 21, Chris Martin and his band Coldplay were performing in Naples, Italy, and his girlfriend Dakota Johnson was in the audience. In a video shared by the Daily Mail, the singer covered the stage, then stopped to serenade her where she was sitting to watch the show in the sound deck. Johnson smiled and blew him a kiss.

October 2023

Johnson kicked off the month by being a supportive girlfriend. The actor attended Martin’s Coldplay concert on Sunday, October 1, in Pasadena, California, with her mother. Photos came out of Johnson there in a long leather jacket with a black top.

December 2023

Gwyneth Paltrow was responding to requests from fans an Instagram story Q&A, and one of them simply wrote, 'Photo with Dakota.'

Paltrow seemed happy to oblige, sharing a picture of her and Johnson holding hands while standing in the streets dressed for cold weather. Both were in jeans, and Paltrow wore a coat with a hood and beanie while Johnson was in a jacket and a cap.

In another Q&A in October, Paltrow said she and Johnson are 'very good friends.' 'We’re actually very good friends, I love her so much,' she went on. 'She’s an adorable, wonderful person.'

February 2024

Martin and Johnson were photographed for the first time in months together on vacation. Johnson was seen in a white one-piece in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico with her partner on Sunday, February 18. They held hands in one shot TMZ published.

March 2024

Johnson shared rare details about her relationship with Martin and his children in her Bustle interview. She called his son and daughter with ex-wife Gwyneth Paltrow her stepchildren. 'I love those kids like my life depends on it. With all my heart,' she said.

As for Martin, she said that she loves watching him perform: 'I love watching him,' she said. 'I could watch him every day. I don’t know how to explain it. I feel like, I don’t know... I’m watching my most favourite being do his most favourite thing.' She added, 'When people are really good at things, it is [sexy.]'

Johnson also touched on how she feels about becoming a mother herself one day. 'I’m so open to that,' she said. 'I’ve gotten to this place where I really want to experience everything that life has to offer. And especially being a woman, I’m like, "What a magical fucking thing to do. What a crazy, magical, wild experience". If that’s meant to happen for me, I’m totally down for it. I’ve been really tripping out recently like, we’re not here for very long. There’s so much to eat up and learn and grow from and experience and feel. That includes all the pain and the suffering and feeling so helpless about the world. Most days I feel like the most useless piece of shit. I’m sitting in this dumbass chair, talking about this dumbass movie, and there are people in excruciating catastrophes, and what can I do? I do have that incredible friction in myself. And then I’m like, "We’re not here for very long", so if I’m meant to be a mother, bring it on.'

Days after Johnson’s interview, a source told People that Johnson and Martin have been engaged. '[They] got engaged years ago but were in no rush to get married,' a source close to the couple said.

People revealed that the large emerald ring that Johnson was seen wearing in December 2020 was an engagement ring. She has since been photographed wearing it on and off over the years. Its most recent appearance was in November 2023.

June 2024

In May, a fan sparked break up rumours by sharing a photo with Martin and saying he introduced himself as single. A source told People on June 11 that he and Johnson were still 'going strong.'

They added, 'They’ve had ups and downs, but now they’re definitely back on.'

August 2024

On August 16, a source claimed to Daily Mail that Johnson and Martin had broken up. 'Chris and Dakota have tried desperately hard over the past few months to make their relationship work,' the source alleged. 'They’ll always have love for each other but they’ve both come to the conclusion the relationship cannot be sustained long-term. They’re both busy people, Chris has been in Europe with Coldplay and they both have personal priorities, passions and work commitments which don’t naturally intertwine with each other. They wanted it to work but it just hasn’t, and they’ve now accepted it is best to move on.'

But hours later, a rep for the couple denied that was the case. Rumours that they had broken up are 'not true,' the spokesperson told E!. 'They are happily together.'

October 2024

Following sightings of Johnson without her engagement ring, rumours once again sparked that the actor and singer were longer together. According to an insider, the couple's friends are officially fed up of their on-and-off relationship status, as per In Touch.

'Their friends have been tolerating all this back and forth and dealing with all these cryptic excuses for what feels like years. Chris and Dakota are both very paranoid so they don’t want to tell people what’s going on and will act really defensive if anyone asks, but then when there’s a crisis that all goes out the window and they’ll call everyone up to ask for advice.'

'People are at the point where they don’t even want to get into it, they’re begging them both to just figure this out, and make a decision and stick with it.'

Whether this means the pair have parted ways for good or are still trying to work things out, is still however, to be determined.

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