Dating a Sagittarius man? Read this first
There are just a few basics that need to be explored when you first start dating someone. Where is he from? What does he do for a living? Oh, and most definitely, when’s his birthday? This isn’t just for remembering when to send that “happy b-day :)” text! Knowing a potential partner's zodiac sign can really help in understanding his behaviour. Astrology helps us break down personality traits, pet peeves, and, yes, even dating patterns. It can be fun and informative to look up his sign and see how yours works with his (aka compatibility).
If you’re dating, Insta sleuthing (hi, guilty), or just fantasising over a Sagittarius man, we’re here to help you navigate this passionate fire sign. These adventurous archers are optimistic and outspoken and famously love their freedom. Here’s what you’ve gotta know about them.
Luckily, astrology allows us to decipher personality traits, pet peeves, and so much more. And trust me when I say there is sooo much more to a Sagittarius man than you initially realised. You think they're all fun and adventurous, and they are, but they're so much more than that, too.
So if your guy was born between 22nd November and 21st December, you’re in for a treat. Sagittarians make life (and sex) feel incredible, but as it goes with any sign, there are some things you may want to keep an eye out for.
The Sagittarius basics
Birthday: 22nd November to 21st December
Modality: Mutable
Element: Fire
Ruling planet: Jupiter
Represented by: The archer
Tarot card: Temperance
Best crystals: Lapis lazuli, black tourmaline, rose quartz, carnelian, malachite
Keywords: Carefree, optimistic, blunt, active, adventurous, lucky, free, noncommittal, curious, philosophical, outspoken, impulsive
Best traits: Adventurous, optimistic, passionate, outspoken
Worst traits: Noncommittal, flaky, blunt, careless
Love anthem: 'Run Away With Me,' by Carly Rae Jepsen
Famous Sagittarius men: Brad Pitt, Jay-Z, Jake Gyllenhaal, Charlie Puth, Trey Songz, Jon Stewart, Jay-Z, DJ Khaled, Jamie Foxx, Ben Stiller, Steven Yeun, Don Cheadle, Jonah Hill, Nat Wolff, Ian Somerhalder, Brad Pitt, Mark Ruffalo, Nat Wolff, Samuel L. Jackson, Charlie Puth, Lil Baby, Jin, Offset
A Sagittarius man's best traits
"Sagittarius" is basically synonymous with "adventurous" at this point, and while there's a lot more to a Sag than that, it's also true! Your Sagittarius lover will suggest day trips and long weekends away, and trust, he'll have plenty of ideas for how to use your annual leave. And Sagittarius isn't just physically adventurous, but mentally as well. He's well-read, deeply curious, and always up for trying something new...including in the bedroom.
A Sagittarius man's worst traits
No other zodiac sign puts their foot in their mouth like Sagittarius. It's not that these archers are ill-intentioned, they just tend to speak before they really think things through, and they lack a little tact. If you're on the sensitive side, it's easy to get your feelings hurt by a Sagittarius. This sign is also stereotyped as noncommittal, and while that's not completely true — Sags will commit to someone or something they think is really worth it — this sign prefers to be spontaneous rather than plan dates and life milestones in advance.
Compatibility: The best matches for a Sagittarius man
Sagittarius and Aries
Obvi, Sagittarius vibes with fellow fire sign Aries. You’re all so outspoken and passionate that you just get along…until you don’t. Luckily, if you fight, you make up easily, and let's be real, it keeps things interesting!
Sagittarius and Gemini
Gemini gives Sagittarius an opposites-attract situation. (Literally, they’re opposites on the zodiac.) They’re both super smart and super curious, and sparks just fly!
Sagittarius and Leo
Sag also clicks with fellow fire sign Leo. Both are happy to stand in the spotlight, and they're both very funny, confident, and optimistic, not to mention generous with their friends.
Sagittarius and Libra
Sag also clicks with air sign Libra — Libra's witty banter and playful attitude keep Sag interested, and Libra's diplomatic nature can help smooth over Sag's social gaffes (while Libra's gossipy side loves to see the drama).
Sagittarius and Sagittarius
When it comes to this sign, another Sagittarius is the best choice for a partner! You are both unapologetically up-front and can dish out the tea as well as you can take it from others, so arguments are quick and then forgotten about.
Sagittarius and Aquarius
Another great match for Sagittarius is Aquarius. Both of you have unique perspectives on the world that are completely your own, which you both love to have friendly debates over.
Compatibility: The worst matches for a Sagittarius man
Sagittarius and Taurus
Homebody Taurus can also struggle to connect with adventurous Sagittarius's lifestyle, and they're so stubborn they won't back down from a disagreement.
Sagittarius and Cancer
Cancer is even more of a homebody than Taurus. Sag always wants to be on the go, while Cancer would prefer to stay home!
Sagittarius and Virgo
Sagittarius might struggle to get along with Virgo. Sag is so adventurous that Virgo thinks he's reckless, while Sag gets annoyed with Virgo's tendency to hyper-focus on the details.
Sagittarius and Scorpio
Sag and Scorpio are side-by-side in the zodiac, which can sometimes lead to a fun, playful connection, but in this case, it's a hard sell. Sag just says what they think, no matter how impolite, while Scorpio says nothing and instead lets resentment build up for years.
Sagittarius and Capricorn
Just like earth signs Taurus and Virgo, Capricorn is just too serious for playful Sag. Sag feels like Capricorn is boring, and Cap thinks Sag is immature.
Sagittarius and Pisces
Pisces also presents some challenges. This water sign wants to be super-close both physically and emotionally, while Sagittarius loves their freedom and impulsive solo getaways.
If you're incompatible...
Having incompatible Sun signs doesn't mean your relationship is doomed — it just means you might have to put in a little work to really ~get~ each other. And compatibility is about so much more than your Sun sign anyway, so if your Moon signs or another part of your birth charts mesh well, you might be an astrologically blessed match anyway.
But even if your birth chart is Virgo all the way down, if you make an effort to understand your Sagittarius partner — and vice versa — you can have a great relationship too. And TBH, ~astrological tension~ can also lead to ~sexual tension~, so there's something to be said for "incompatibility"!
Sex with a Sagittarius man
Sagittarius was voted most likely to join the mile-high club. These travel-loving, spontaneous Sags are ready to go whenever, wherever. They also just miiight have a bit of an exhibitionist streak. They love sex in public. Or semi public. Or outdoors. Or at least, they don’t mind if the neighbours hear. For Sagittariuses, the ideal sex session is fun, hot, and playful — slow, emotional bonding just isn’t their thing.
Sags love variety, so they're almost always down to try a new sex position, kink, or toy. They're not afraid to make a suggestion or make the first move, but they love it when you take initiative and are direct about what you want.
A date with a Sagittarius man
Dinner and drinks is too boring for a Sag. Choose something that appeals to their sense of adventure or their philosophical mind: A hike, an axe-throwing bar, a modern art exhibit. Or alternately, level-up the traditional dinner and drinks: Take them to a food festival so they can try snacks from tons of different cuisines, or sign up for a cocktail making class together. Enjoy!
A relationship with a Sagittarius man
Sag might take a while to be ready to define the relationship, but once you're in, you're in. Hopefully you can keep up with your jet-setting sweetie, because he's always traveling, bouncing from hobby to hobby, and living life at 110%. Ultimately, Sag just wants someone who can keep up with him!
A Sagittarius man in love
What's more romantic than plane tickets for a last-minute weekend vacay? Sag shows his love by inviting you to join him on the things he's passionate about. And he'll be equally curious about your passions, too. So don't be afraid to show him what you're into — odds are he'll be just as obsessed.
A Sagittarius man at work
Sagittarius is definitely an ideas person, but they're way more about the big picture than they are about the details. They shine in brainstorming sessions, but for true success, they'll need to partner with a more meticulous sign like Virgo. Sag is also the life of the party at the office. They have a lot of casual work friends and are no stranger to after-work happy hours.
A Sagittarius man at home
Expect to see souvenirs from Sag's travels and relics of past hobbies scattered around their home. In fact, their place might look kinda like a lived-in, well-loved museum...one with plenty of comfy furniture and blankets. They also likely have an extensive book, DVD, or vinyl collection to keep their curious mind happy.
A Sagittarius man with friends
As a fire sign, Sag likely has a wide range of casual friends rather than a tight circle of besties. He can befriend people from different cultures, in different countries, and who speak different languages. Don't be surprised if your couple life involves jetting off to Japan for his college bestie's wedding or planning a holiday in Kenya so he can visit the friend he met in Argentina 10 years ago.
A gift for a Sagittarius man
You know how some people prefer ~experiences~ to physical things? Yeah, that's Sag. Surprise him with a weekend trip, a cocktail-making class, or gig tickets. If you prefer to get him something he can hold, give him something that will help out with his hobby of choice, like new headphones so he can listen to his favourite band or a new suitcase so he can travel in style.
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