19 Gen Z'ers Shared The Things From The Past That Have Ceased To Exist For Their Generation

Recently, older adults shared their nostalgic experiences that are basically non-existent nowadays. And while older generations are no strangers to sharing the things that were better "back in the day," as a Zillennial, it's true; some things just were better. Like the cost of a home, for instance:

Price history showing two events: On 9/24/1999, property sold for $162,000 at $81/sqft. On 7/20/2023, property listed for sale at $1,400,000 at $700/sqft
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Or even the fact that people used to have "diaper service," where a truck would come by to pick up dirty diapers and leave a bag of clean ones during the week:

A man stands beside a van labeled "CRIB Diaper Service" holding a phone. A baby carriage and tricycle are in the foreground
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Growing up in Michigan, I also heard about the "swimmobiles" in 1970s Detroit, which were literally pool trucks that would come by for kids to play in during the hot summers. It was kinda like the ice cream truck (but swimming!!!):

Children enjoying a swim in a portable pool labeled "Swim Mobile" while adults watch from the top deck

Anyway, I wanted to hear from other Gen Z'ers about the things their parents or older adults in their life grew up with that they wish they had, so I asked Gen Z'ers in the BuzzFeed Community to share all their thoughts. Here's what they had to say:

1."Being able to go outside and play for ages with other kids sounds amazing. Gen Z is/was under 24-hour surveillance by our parents, and it just sounds nice to be a kid and have fun."

A young girl in a hoodie looks at her phone while leaning on a bunk bed; a woman stands in the doorway watching her

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Similarly, "Staying out till the street lights come on."

—Anonymous

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2."Having so much freedom and not needing to be supervised sounds great. Plus cheaper houses."

A hand holds a downward trending arrow above a small house model and stacks of coins, symbolizing a decline in the real estate market or home values
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3."Cheap concert tickets! The price of a front-row ticket back then is like a lawn seat now. And don’t get me started on the prices of merch."

Two general admission tickets for a Blink 182 concert with BC Outdoor Theatre, 415 Productions on May 8, 1998, $12.50 each, all ages

4."Not recording everything at a concert, and a better variety of book and record stores."

A large crowd holds up smartphones to record or take photos of a stage performance at night

—Anonymous

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5."Cost. Everything is expensive! You want to get just a few groceries for the house? Yea, that will be $100-$200. Dang, even for a regular-size candy bar, it's close to $4!"

Store shelf filled with various candy bars including KitKat, M&M's, Twix, Snickers, Butterfinger, 3 Musketeers, Hershey's, and others

6."Good music. I was born in '97 so there was still a pretty good amount of ACTUAL music coming out as I grew up, BUT a lot of music today feels so overproduced and just has no meaning anymore. A lot of it is just for shock factor/way too raunchy."

A close-up of a hand adjusting sliders on an audio mixing console, showing various levels and controls
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7."Having an excuse not to be available all the time. My entire life, people have always had phones and expect you to get back to them immediately. I imagine that if someone mailed you a letter back in the day, you would have a somewhat grace period before you had to respond. Now, with emails and texts, they know you get it instantly and expect you to reply instantly. Maybe I just want life to move at a slower pace."

A person is mailing an envelope in a yellow mailbox. The image focuses on the hands as they insert the envelope

—Anonymous

Similarly, "I wish people sent more letters to one another. I really enjoy writing letters to family or friends and nothing beats the joy of receiving a letter addressed to you that isn’t junk mail!"

—Anonymous

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8."I miss the craftsmanship of older houses. My family's houses built pre-2000 are of amazing quality, whereas my brother's new house is clearly shoddily built. My first apartment, which my roommates and I paid a collective $2,500+ in rent every month, was so poorly constructed. The walls, the paint, the cabinetry — it was all awful. My parents' home is coming up on 26 years standing and has needed no major work in the almost three decades it's been up. On the other hand, my brother and his wife lived in their newly built house for all of a month, and the kitchen sink fell into the cabinets."

Left image: 1953 ceramic-coated cast iron sink with built-in shelves. Right image: 2023 granite countertop sink held up by glue

9."I wish people danced more. In the olden days people danced a lot more I feel like. I love to dance and I think now people are too scared to dance because they are afraid they will get recorded."

An elderly woman and a young girl play in a small green kiddie pool in a grassy backyard. A bench and a stone wall are in the background
An elderly woman and a young girl play in a small green kiddie pool in a grassy backyard. A bench and a stone wall are in the background
Two people, seen from behind, are dancing outdoors at night near a house. They are casually dressed in jeans and tops
Two people, seen from behind, are dancing outdoors at night near a house. They are casually dressed in jeans and tops

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—Anonymous

10."Freedom and free play. I'm in the midst of reading The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt. Listening to him compare (my) Gen Z childhood with that of all older generations (millennials included!) really has me wishing I had more independence. It also sucks because I'm 21 years old and have a hard time motivating myself to do much of anything, despite being responsible for the task completion. It seems like the old adage is true: screens really did rot our brains."

A person lying down in dim light, covering one eye with their hand while looking at a screen

11."I wish I had grown up in a time when technology was less user-friendly, and the internet was less toxic. That way, there would be less brain-rot on the internet, such as Skibidi Toilet or common TikTok dances. If I could’ve grown up in the '80s and '90s, I wouldn't have these problems, and many more."

A cartoonish, grinning man's head appears inside a toilet bowl in a bathroom setting

—Ray, 14

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12."Cassette tapes. I would love searching for hours to find a good set."

A young girl in vintage attire with her hair tied back listens to a cassette player in a retro-themed room with patterned curtains and textured walls

—Anonymous

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13."Kind of a weird one, but I think the cars looked better back in the day! They were more colorful, rounded, and pleasing to the eye. I get that cars now are more aerodynamic, but we could still do fun colors right?"

A 1956 Chevrolet station wagon with luggage on top is parked in front of a small single-story house in a suburban neighborhood

—Anonymous

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14."Cars being more easily fixable instead of overengineered. And the engine being accessible instead of crammed in with a thousand computer parts and plastic 🙃."

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15."As an elder Gen-Z, I really enjoy certain trends from the '60s and 70s, and for me, the style always stands out. I would particularly love to see the '70s feathered hair come back and have a more frequent presence. I want to see what it would look like for us in our current decade."

Farrah Fawcett wavy hair smiles as she hugs a Golden Retriever dog on a beach
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16."Honestly, landlines. We had one when I was a kid so they're not that old, but I miss 'em. Especially if we could go back to rotary phones, they were so charming. And it'd be nice not to be reachable 24/7 (though let's be real, I would miss my phone lol)."

Young child holding a phone receiver to their ear, standing at a desk with papers, a rotary dial phone, and a wall calendar in the background

—Anonymous

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17."No internet. Old school phones. A planet that isn’t melting."

Nicola Coughlan in a black outfit appears emotional during a BuzzFeed Celeb interview

18."A sense of freaking safety. Oh, and parents running their kids, not kids running their parents."

A man and a young girl holding hands while walking down a city street. Their faces are not visible. The girl is wearing a long-sleeve shirt

—Anonymous

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And lastly:

19."I'm entering the teaching field, and I wish we could have less gun violence. I know violence has always existed and will continue to exist, but living in a world where little kids are routinely taught and practice how to survive a shooting is wild. I started doing these drills when I was a student, but I didn't fully realize how wrong the whole situation was until I began practicing the drills with my own students. I will do anything necessary to keep my students safe; I just feel so broken living in a world where these practices and mindsets are necessary."

Two women at a protest hold a sign reading, "Which of my students do I shield with my body?" Both wear casual clothing and hats

—Anonymous

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What about you? If you're a Gen Z'er, what existed "back in the day" that you wish was still around? Or, what exists today that previous generations didn't have to worry about? Let me know in the comments or by using this form.