Hilaria Baldwin confirms miscarriage in emotional Instagram post: 'It's over'


Hilaria Baldwin has confirmed she has suffered a miscarriage.

The news comes less than one week after the 35-year-old fitness expert revealed she was pregnant with her fifth child and would most likely not carry to term.

Hilaria and Alec Baldwin. Image via Getty Images.
Hilaria and Alec Baldwin. Image via Getty Images.

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“There was no heartbeat today at my scan…so it’s over,” Baldwin said in her latest post to Instagram. “But I have some pretty strong and amazing hearts right here. I am surrounded by so much love and I feel so fortunate.”

“Thank you all for listening, for your support, and for sharing your own personal stories. We are stronger together… I hope this conversations continues to grow and that we stick together through both the beautiful and challenging moments in life,” she continued. “Much love and appreciation to all of you.”

In an interview with the Today Show earlier this week, Baldwin revealed she first learned that there were potential problems with her pregnancy during a routine doctor’s appointment when the ultrasound technician went quiet.

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“The silence makes you very nervous,” she said. “And this technician, she just kept being quiet and kept on trying to find the heartbeat. She could find it and she’d listen and hear it, [but it was] very spread apart and slow. She said to me that the heartbeat is not very fast. Then I went in again and in the life of an embryo – days, a week- it’s completely different. And it was the same.”

Baldwin says she wanted to share her news with followers, to help end the shame women often experience after a miscarriage.

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I want to share with you that I am most likely experiencing a miscarriage. I always promised myself that if I were to get pregnant again, I would share the news with you guys pretty early, even if that means suffering a public loss. I have always been so open with you all about my family, fitness, pregnancies…and I don’t want to keep this from you, just because it isn’t as positive and shiny as the rest. I think it’s important to show the truth…because my job is to help people by being real and open. Furthermore, I have no shame or embarrassment with this experience. I want to be a part of the effort to normalize miscarriage and remove the stigma from it. There is so much secrecy during the first trimester. This works for some, but I personally find it to be exhausting. I’m nauseous, tired, my body is changing. And I have to pretend that everything is just fine—and it truly isn’t. I don’t want to have to pretend anymore. I hope you understand. So, this is what is going on now: the embryo has a heartbeat, but it isn’t strong, and the baby isn’t growing very much. So we wait—and this is hard. So much uncertainty…but the chances are very, very small that this is a viable pregnancy. I have complete confidence that my family and I will get through this, even if the journey is difficult. I am so blessed with my amazing doctor, my dear friends, and my loving family…My husband and my four very healthy babies help me keep it together and have the perspective of how truly beautiful life is, even when it occasionally seems ugly. The luck and gratitude I feel that I am my babies’ mommy, is wonderfully overwhelming and comforting. In your comments, please be kind. I’m feeling a bit fragile and I need support. I’m hoping, that by sharing this, I can contribute to raising awareness about this sensitive topic.

A post shared by Hilaria Thomas Baldwin (@hilariabaldwin) on Apr 4, 2019 at 6:47am PDT

“As women, we’re trained to deal with it silently. You’re definitely not supposed to say anything until 12 weeks,” she told hosts Savannah Guthrie and Hoda Kotb. “And some of that is because people are superstitious or that’s how they feel they’re going to be stronger. And a lot of it, for other people, is fear. And I don’t think that we have to live with such fear.”

A miscarriage is classified as any loss in pregnancy before the 20th week of pregnancy, but is highest within the first 13 weeks. An estimated 15 to 20 per cent of pregnancies result in miscarriage, and in many cases, the cause is unknown.

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Chromosomal problems, problems with implantation, infection, or problems with the uterus or cervix are all possible causes of miscarriage.

Certain factors, such as age, increase a woman’s risk of miscarriage. Women over 35 as well as those who smoke, drink or use harmful drugs are at an increased risk of pregnancy complications.

Image via Getty Images.
Image via Getty Images.

Preexisting health conditions, such as autoimmune disorders like lupus, obesity, diabetes and hormone problems such as polycystic ovarian syndrome also play a factor in a healthy pregnancy, and should be discussed with a health care provider.

Despite being common, miscarriages can be traumatic experiences for women and their partners. According to a 2016 study, four in 10 women who experienced a miscarriage reported symptoms of post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) three months after pregnancy loss.

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Aside from flashbacks and nightmares, many women were overcome with feelings of depression and anxiety, and actively avoided friends and family. Equally troubling were the 80 per cent of participants who said they felt like a failure after a miscarriage, and the 70 per cent who reported feeling guilty.

Visit the March of Dimes website for more information about pregnancy and miscarriage.

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