Kidnapping survivor Elizabeth Smart shares safety tips for children
Kidnapping survivor Elizabeth Smart has shared her advice for how children can protect themselves.
The 36-year-old activist discussed the importance of childrenâs safety during an interview with Fox News, published on 28 January. In 2003, Smart was found alive after being kidnapped from her home at age 14 by street preacher Brian David Mitchell and his wife, Wanda Barzee. Since her rescue, she has been an advocate for kidnapping survivors and has spoken openly about her abduction.
Speaking to the outlet, the commentator said that she wants to help young children feel ready when faced with danger, noting that sheâs kept that in mind during her classes for The Elizabeth Smart Foundation, which has a mission to âend the victimisation and exploitation of sexual assault through education, healing, and advocacy,â according to the organisationâs official website.
She then shared one safety tip that is taught to children in the self-defence class and how she encourages it. âOne of the first things that we have our class attendees do is yell because thatâs one of the most powerful tools you have â to just scream,â she said. âVery rarely do we have someone just scream at the top of their lungs and not feel embarrassed.â
Smart went on to note that usually, students find amusement in the shouting thatâs done in the classroom. However, she acknowledged this is a perspective that people should have about screaming, especially in cases where theyâre in danger.
"Usually, thereâs some embarrassed laughter or embarrassed smiles at first, and maybe the loudest person is screaming at 50 per cent volume. And if we canât really scream in a safe environment without feeling silly or embarrassed, weâre probably not going to be able to call on that when we actually need it,â she said. âSo, donât be afraid to practise screaming.â
During the interview, she specified that sheâs been warning her own children about the physical and online dangers in the world, which she said has been âone of the most stressful parts of [her] life right nowâ. She also shared that it wasnât initially easy to talk to her three children â Chloe, eight, James, five, and Olivia, four â who she shares with husband Matthew Glimour, about her kidnapping.
âWhen my oldest was three years old, she started asking me questions,â she explained. ââWhat happened to you? How did you get hurt?â They were questions that I was not prepared to answer. I thought I still had years to talk about it. It did force me to have some pretty hard conversations.â
According to Smart, when she discusses the abduction with her children now, theyâre not necessarily as interested, as she noted that she feels like âthey just roll their eyes atâ her when she talks about the topic. However, she acknowledged that theyâre still aware that theyâre ultimately having these conversations for the sake of their own safety.
âIâm like: âDo you understand why weâre talking about this?â And they respond: âYes, you donât want us to get hurt. Yes, you donât want this bad thing to happen to us. Yes, we know.â But itâs so important,ââ she continued.
In 2002, Smart was held by her captor Mitchell and his wife Wanda Barzee for nine months, after being kidnapped at knifepoint from her home in Salt Lake City. She was eventually rescued by police on a street in Utah, and the case has been widely reported as well as becoming the subject of numerous films and books.
Sixteen years after the kidnapping, Barzee was freed from prison, after having served concurrent sentences stemming from federal and state convictions. In 2009, she pleaded guilty in federal court to one count of kidnapping and one count of enticement of a minor. She was sentenced to 180 months in prison and 60 months of supervised release.
In 2010, Barzee pleaded guilty to a single count of aggravated kidnapping in Utah, a second-degree felony. These charges were related to a plot to kidnap one of Smartâs cousins shortly after the initial abduction. A judge sentenced her to 15 years for that crime, which is the maximum the state of Utah allows for that class of felony. Meanwhile, Mitchell is serving a life sentence for his convictions.
During her interview with Fox News, Smart also spoke openly about her abduction, sharing that she felt âvery aloneâ when she was rescued. She also spoke candidly about being a victim of sexual assault, as she testified in 2009 that she was drugged, raped, and starved when she was kidnapped.
âI didnât know of anyone who had been through something similar ⊠like kidnapping,â she said. âSexual assault and exploitation â they were not commonly spoken about, at least I donât remember them being commonly spoken about. So, initially, I wanted to just hide everything from everyone.â
Smart acknowledged that she didnât initially want to talk to others about what sheâd been through, due to her feelings of âshame and embarrassment,â even though she knew that what happened to her âwasnât [her] faultâ. However, she said that over time, she formed more connections with people she could relate to, some of who were also survivors of sexual assault.
âBut as I moved on with my life, I began to meet more and more survivors. And they began to share their stories of what had happened,â she said. âI began to realise that what happened to me was not so one in a million.â
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