Women Are Sharing The Subtle Things Other Women Do That They Find Incredibly Attractive

I often come across threads of people sharing what they find attractive in the opposite sex. However, this Reddit thread of women sharing what they find attractive in other women was really interesting because the responses are insightful and go way beyond physical things. Here is what some people shared:

1."When they show they care. 'I’ve noticed you were sad, so I’m coming over to make your day better.'"

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2."When she tucks her hair behind her ear mid-conversation and looks at you like you're the only one in the world."

AriaCrazy

3."Laugh at my stupid jokes"

Substantial_Judge931

4."Confidence, genuine kindness, and passion for their interests — those little moments when their eyes light up talking about something they love."

NymiraEcho

5."When they flip their hair. It drives me wild."

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6."When they compliment me on a really basic outfit/makeup when they look like Greek goddesses."

caffiend00

7."Any woman with her shit together immediately catches my attention because most of them do not. Most guys don’t either."

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8."One thing I find attractive is when a girl is genuinely confident in herself and her passions. Whether she's talking about something she loves or just being unapologetically herself, that kind of energy is magnetic. Oh, and the way she laughs — genuinely and not trying to impress anyone — just feels so real and refreshing!"

AdventurousAd1943

9."When they put my emotional well-being over their desire for drama."

ToTAEK

10."Grab your arm or hide behind you when something scares them."

GallaeciCastrejo

11."A certain type of smile feels like it just belongs on their face. Like that’s their default (I have no idea how else to describe it). It’s so beautiful and gives me butterflies every time."

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12."Women who look fairly feminine and yet have the most caustic/morbid/deadpan sense of humor will be the death of me. Also, showing kindness to people below them and a willingness to communicate what they think and feel as opposed to playing games."

RoastedEurobean

13."Genuinely smile when we’re talking, it makes me feel like they’re actually enjoying my company and I’m making them comfortable."

Gaysatan11

14."Girls lean into an emotional connection in a way that men don't. I've left dates that went well and texted them that I'm grinning like an idiot and already can't wait to see them again, and I can be pretty confident they'll reply and say something similar. If I had the same magical experience of a date, but it was with a guy, I'd think a lot more carefully about gushing to them. Women lean in, but it'll scare men off."

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15."Be a little bit quirky. I love some dorkiness."

AsknReview

16."Femininity with a boss woman mindset."

LeoDancer93

17."I really like when a girl is not on her phone often."

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18."When they are fixated on something in the distance, and they are absently staring at it with curiosity and awe until the point they notice your gaze and smile back at you. I've been lucky to experience that a few times"

Keracus

19."If they have a talent. Sing, play instruments, draw, etc. Something that stands out. And just a kind soul — you just know when they have it."

KamikazeFox_

20."Women who wear comfortable clothes. Women who wear little to no makeup are my preference. And women who are independent/confident and don’t need constant reassurance."

LilParkButt

Is there anything else you could add to this list? If so, share it with me in the comments below!