29 Spicy Sex Acts From 2024 You WILL Want To Take With You In 2025, 2026, And Beyond
This past year, we wrote a number of posts about some of the steamiest sex acts folks have ever done.
They spiced up some love lives (to say the least) and truly changed the way some people view sex. Whether it was leaning into sex acts they learned from porn or just getting plain old experimental, they felt pure pleasure, and good for them!!!
So, let's honor the best sex acts, moves, and tricks from 2024 that you WILL want to take with you into 2025, 2026, and beyond:
Note: These submissions don't reflect a universal experience of sex acts people enjoy. Everyone's story is different.
1."It was pretty much straight missionary for the first few years, then we opened it up to sex toys and vibrators. Then we moved on to different positions, like doggy and prone. A year ago, I was fingering her, and I just started massaging her asshole and slid my thumb in — now that's a fairly regular part of foreplay. And just last night, same deal: I was fingering her, and she said, 'No asshole tonight.' So, I used three fingers...then four...then I had my whole hand in her. We talked about how far we have come in our sex life afterward, and we were so proud and amazed at how things have progressed from boring, mild, vanilla sex to fisting and ass play."
2."I started reading some of her dirty books. I started adding parts of the characters I was comfortable with to our sex life (figuring out dirty talk for real and not just little bits). Figuring out some concensual-non-consent stuff — helping her figure out how much she really can and wants to be pushed (because she wanted to be pushed more). She wanted a more 'controlling' person there. She wasn't ever really aware of it, but it's something we learned in the last couple of years. I was never aware of how much I would enjoy being that person, either. We've always had great intimacy, but there's a difference now. She's in control of a lot in our house and with what she does for work, so she wants to be controlled in a sexual setting. I am very happy to oblige. Some of the books are great, but some are too much — you need to discuss the ideas beforehand. There is a learning curve but in the best possible way."
3."I figured out that I can use my thumb on my wife's clitoris in any missionary-like position (using gentle circles and a little pressure). It made a huge difference for us both to reach the finish line, and I usually get the silver medal for it (in a good way). Now that we're older and my hand cramps like a motherfucker, we use toys to stimulate her. Now I have a hand free for boob-related activities, which we discovered is also a turn-on for her."
4."The longer the foreplay, the better. Some people get frustrated and upset by this, while others go bananas. Also, tilting your face to the side when eating her out so you can actually breathe. Porn actors do it to open the camera angle, but I'm telling you, you can eat her out for so much longer when you can breathe."
5."I call it 'the restriction game.' She has to pick a number of times she can ride me (for example, she’ll start off with 10 and can only ride 10 times). She has to count (in her head, but usually ends up being out loud as the number increases and she’s concentrating). The rule is she has to stop at 10 (or whatever the number you both choose). You then decide on the next number, and she has to go up and down only that amount of time. She has to stop herself, or it’s over if she 'cheats.' Usually, you want to give her less than she wants, so if she’s, like, '25,' you’ll say, 'Nah, you only get 15 — so make sure you go slow and concentrate and don’t you dare go over.' She’ll end up concentrating and focusing on it so hard that she’ll cum super hard. It’s hands down the best trick I ever came up with."
6."My partner and I started out on a slightly more wild note. We had developed a friendship and a sense of trust and comfort with one another before we became a couple, which helped. But things have gone up a notch hugely since then, and here’s how: We had a conversation about what we were both already into/if there was anything either of us had ever wanted to try. We made a kinky bucket list — we add to it regularly, and we tick things off it regularly. We discussed if we liked certain things we’ve tried or not, and now some of the things from the list are in our regular rotation! We also watched some porn together, which made us either go, 'Nope, can’t do that one' or 'Hell yeah, let’s do that right this second.'"
"We’re now very much into some of the more vanilla versions of rough sex. We like choking, spanking, biting, scratching, temperature play, public sex (out of eyesight, but still risky), anal, spitting in each other's mouths, handcuffs, and blindfolds.
We also make our own sex tapes and watch them back when we fuck (this one seems like it's kinda niche, but I feel like others would do this?)."
7."Teasing and pacing when I go down on my partner. The clit isn't actual food, so don't actually eat it. Slow kisses and passes with gentle pressure, kissing and nibbling the inner thighs. It was definitely a more sensual video, but the idea of not racing her across the finish line has changed my oral game."
8."I had just moved into a new place and had no proper bed yet. I had one of those double-high air mattresses, but it wasn’t the greatest at keeping air…there was always a slow leak. We started fooling around, and I ended up on top. The mattress let out just enough air that it was like riding a goddamn wave with a penis. The motion was bananas. It was a very good surprise — I was never able to replicate it."
9."My ex and I did it, and I still wanted more. So, while he was in recovery, I broke out the toys. I find it is easier to masturbate while laying on my stomach, as I can get a vibrator deeper in that way/can kind of 'ride' a vibrating egg. When he was ready again, he rolled over on top of me and lined himself up with my ass. As I was thrusting myself backward, I would hit his cock with my ass, little by little, until it was all the way inside. So I had stimulation from the vibrating egg on my cilt, the vibrator in my pussy, and now anal made an appearance. He told me afterward that the sounds I was making sounded like I was chanting. I was kind of blacked out, and it was like one continuous orgasm."
10."When giving a woman cunnilingus, it's hard to continually (and properly) spread the labia to stimulate the clit. You end up doing a peace sign on her pussy ✌️. What you want to be doing is wrapping your arm around her leg and spreading it apart from the top with your thumb and pointer. This leaves your other hand to have easy access to stimulate the rest of the vagina — it's so much more comfortable. Because most guys don't spend long enough eating pussy, they rarely focus all at once on the big three: Clit, G-spot, and steady repetitive hymen stimulation. This is how you get those mind-bender orgasms."
11."I learned to pull out when you are about to cum and then go down on her. Then return to penetration when you're not peaked so you last longer."
12."My husband is in his fifties now, and I'm in my early thirties. The sex we had before we got married was quite decent, and I had thought that our dynamic would be like that for the next couple of years and that it would probably change after he'd reached his sixties. I was totally okay with that — I love him so much, no matter what. But the wild thing is his sex drive has immensely increased, and we started to try kinky fantasies and incorporate fetishes into our sex life. We use a wide-range of toys, accessories, and fetish clothes. We both enjoy a switch kind of dynamic — whoever is the dominant side strongly teases the other, and what it leads to is usually hard sex with lots of orgasms."
13."My girlfriend and I have never been 'super' vanilla (she likes being tied up — nothing super wild). But she started an OnlyFans account in the summer, and it's been doing wonders for us! She's gained a ton of self-confidence. She'll do a photoset and get herself all worked up, then she sends me the pics, and I get all worked up. She's been getting a lot of requests for more explicit stuff, so that's leading to more experimentation for us. I recently started my own account on OnlyFans so I can appear in her content. Did not expect that I'd be doing such a thing, but I'm into it!"
14."Reaching a level of trust where both people are comfortable speaking up about the things they'd like to try is such a game-changer. For me, the biggest turn-on is feeling that I'm really pleasing my partner, so there aren't many things I wouldn't try — the experimenting has been a lot of fun! She initially showed initiative, which for me gave me the trust to speak up about things I wanted to try as well. It started with being naughty in public — just some light strokes and touches where no one else could see (also having her wear dresses without panties)."
"This evolved into sex toys that can be controlled from a cellphone. Initially, it was for her, but now we have a few different ones (including one that goes in me).
The bedroom has evolved a lot as well — she really enjoys being choked and sometimes slapped in the face. This was something that took a while for me to feel comfortable with, but now that I see how much it turns her on, I've learned to do it exactly how she likes it, and it's very arousing for me as well.
One of my favorites (which I would recommend to everyone) is a vibrating toy in her ass while having sex. Extra sensation for the both of us."
15."For 15 years, sex was very, very vanilla. Then, my very brunette wife playfully put on a blonde wig that was part of one of our kids' Halloween costumes. She simply said, 'Hi, I’m Genie.' A little corny scene played out, and from that point forward, Genie was her alter-ego, who was very different from my wife. We have quite a collection of toys and restraints built over the past seven years, but we really went off the rails when our youngest left for college. I’m just over 50 and having more (and better) sex than at any other point in my life. Never imagined this is the way things would be."
16."Her on her stomach on top of a pillow or comforter. My arms around her like a full nelson or my right arm around her neck (not in a forceful way — just around). Then you just kinda start. She was never a screamer before that, but she had to put her head into a pillow to muffle her yelling — it was cream city."
17."It’s extremely difficult for me to pick just one sex session with him, but I've decided it was my birthday sex one year. We did what I call a 'grand tour' of the hotel room we were staying in. I dressed in special red lingerie with zippers in convenient places. He blindfolded me and put on a ball gag. Following our start on the bed, he bent me over the AC unit and faced me toward the window to give a display to passersby. Then we moved to the desk chair and floor and finished on the sofa. On top of the various spots, each location corresponded to a different position."
18."I kept noticing how positively she’d respond when my finger was caressing her buttcrack during foreplay. So one time during sex while she was riding me, I started moving fingers that way, and she was getting noticeably more excited until I started rubbing her asshole with a middle finger in rhythm with her riding me. She absolutely went wild. New achievement unlocked."
19."Switching from female oral to male oral. The people involved sure do have a lot of creativity."
20."A lot of women are turned on by verbal expression. Dirty talk can be awkward, but sexy, sincere talk is very energizing. Things like, 'Damn, I’ll never get enough of your body,' or 'Fuck, you make me happy,' or 'God, I’ll never let you go now.' Things like that — awkward sex talk is laughable. Things like, 'Imma bang you so hard,' or 'I’m gonna f your brains out.' It’s not that hot, ya know (at least not to me)."
21."I was giving her a massage one day and asked if I could shave her butthole — I used my electric shaver to do it. I wasn’t even thinking about it, but it vibrates a lot. Next thing I know, she had me shaving everything down there bald and came, like, four times during the process. After that, we just started trying new things every few weeks."
22."Changing pace, slowing down, or even just stopping. I have absolutely no idea what the video was, but it was porn stars giving tips, and one girl was talking about guys finishing too soon. She said there's nothing wrong with slowing down or even just plain stopping for a few seconds, that the girl isn't going to care. It sounds obvious to me now, but in my twenties, it was a revelation. As toxic as porn can be for some who are kinda unhinged, if you can spot which parts of porn are very obviously not okay for your own bedroom, porn can be surprisingly beneficial."
23."I got some red lingerie and a riding crop for Valentine's Day, but since we really don't celebrate it, I decided to surprise him with it early. I put it on before he got home and threw my onesie over it so I could have a 'reveal' moment. He got home super tired and hungry, so we sat on the couch for a while and talked, and I heated him up some food. The entire time, I was wearing lingerie under my onesie. I have no idea how he didn't notice because my feet were red fishnets. Haha. But after he finished eating, I stood in front of him and said, 'I think you're ready,' and he said, 'Ready for what?' to which I responded, 'To see what's under my onesie.' I took it off and revealed my sexy red lingerie. We proceeded to have wild sex, where we tried out the riding crop, which was one of my fantasies. My legs felt like Jell-O for hours after."
24."Edibles. It's not really wild, but oh my god, orgasms feel so much better (and actual sex feels so much better for me). I'm a lady, and my boyfriend (21 years together) always pleasures me first and is amazing in bed. But penis-in-vagina sex just always felt meh inside — now it's a lot better. After having an orgasm, it's great. I'm 95% of the time on top."
25."Picking a girl up and fucking her in the air. Pull her to the edge of the bed, fold her legs up, and then lift her. The look on a woman's face the first time you do it is always a lot of fun. Obviously, make sure you know your limits, though — don't hurt yourself or her. I like to stay at the edge of the bed so I can pretty safely drop her back onto it when I get tired."
26."My boyfriend is the best. I swear, every time, it just gets better and better, although there are a few notable ones. The first time I slept at his place, we had sex three times, and he got me to scream. The next time when we were at my family's vacation house, we were all over the place — from the bed to the wall and to the bathtub. It was really fun. Then, on Christmas, we climaxed at the same time during sex because I got my hands involved, too (and we filmed it, which kind of gave us a rush). Before him, I'd never had a clitoral orgasm during foreplay (yes, I can climax from that). When he was patient with me and got me off from oral...oh my god, I had no idea what I was missing. My favorite times are when he busts out the coconut oil and gives me a massage or even when he just uses his fingers to give me an orgasm. It's like after that, I NEED him, you know?"
27."[When performing oral sex], stick your tongue alllll the way out and put your hands behind your back."
28."Put a hand on the mound above her pussy and push down gently. You can go slow and use the extra pressure of your hand to really work a girl up and draw it out a bit if you want to. [For me] it's always worked and made sex better — I had a lot of 'returning guests' because of it."
29.And finally, "We’re full-on swingers and are dabbling in the stag/vixen lifestyle a bit, and this is how we got here. Before we were 'wild,' we started by being open and honest in communication, which led to at-home exploration. We really got into lingam and yoni tantric messages, and we felt pretty good about it. After an amazing session, my wife said, 'I wonder if you could make another girl cum that hard?' I got aroused at the thought of her making another guy cum to climax and suggested we try going to a swingers club. We researched and found a club. We only played with ourselves that first night, but we had an amazing time. A few months later, we were searching lifestyle websites and found a couple that started soft swapping, which led to a full swap, which turned into our enjoyment with group play."
"Turns out, she really can make guys cum really hard from lingam messages, and I love watching her do it. She also enjoys watching me make women squirt in particular.
It’s a very satisfying relationship, and I can’t imagine being 'vanilla' ever again. All of our sexcapades just make me more attracted to her, which leads to very good home sex."
Note: Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.
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