"This Baby Will Just Disappear, Then You'll See Her In The Most Random Places": Millions Of People Are Blown Away After A Dad Hilariously Explained How Parent-Friendly It Is To Travel To This One Particular Place

Kent Murphy and his 1-year-old daughter Aoife (pronounced Ee-fah) have recently taken the internet by storm.

A bearded person and a baby with a focused expression are sitting together indoors
A bearded person and a baby with a focused expression are sitting together indoors

Nearly 2 million people are wide-eyed after watching Kent's TikTok about his experience traveling to Southeast Asia with Aoife:

In the video, he starts, "If you are someone who is thinking of traveling with..."

A person outdoors speaking to the camera with text on screen: "is thinking of travelling with."
A person outdoors speaking to the camera with text on screen: "is thinking of travelling with."

"ONE OF THESE..."

Baby in pink onesie looking at camera, held by an adult's arm
Baby in pink onesie looking at camera, held by an adult's arm

"...and that location is Southeast Asia, then do it! Because I am telling you now the hardest part about traveling with a baby is the airplane. That's it — the flights. Although Aoife here, she's done quite good with the flights. No issues that bad," he continues.

A person holding a child, who is wearing a casual top, outdoors. The text on the image reads, "then do it."
A person holding a child, who is wearing a casual top, outdoors. The text on the image reads, "then do it."

"But when you come to this country — we're in Vietnam at the moment — as soon as we walk in anywhere, the staff will just take her."

A man holding a baby outdoors with the caption: "the staff will just take."
A man holding a baby outdoors with the caption: "the staff will just take."

"The staff will take care of her, and it gives us peace to eat and do what we need to do. And then once we've finished our food, the staff will bring her back," he explained.

Adult holding a baby outside, both looking thoughtful. Text overlay reads: "hey isn't that right."
Adult holding a baby outside, both looking thoughtful. Text overlay reads: "hey isn't that right."

"There are so many times where this baby here will just disappear, and then you'll see her in the most random of places," Kent says, asking Aoife, "Hey, isn't that right?"

Man holding a baby outdoors. The text reads, "there are so many times."
Man holding a baby outdoors. The text reads, "there are so many times."

Kent then goes on to explain how he has proof with footage. "Yesterday, she was behind a bar with bartenders," he says before showing the clip:

A man and woman stand at a bar. The woman holds a baby. Text on the image says: "That's My Baby!"
A man and woman stand at a bar. The woman holds a baby. Text on the image says: "That's My Baby!"

The bartender hands Aoife the shot glass, and she looks thoroughly amused:

A bartender holds a baby behind a bar stocked with bottles, while a man looks on
A bartender holds a baby behind a bar stocked with bottles, while a man looks on

Honestly, both of the people caring for Aoife look genuinely happy for her well-being:

A couple stands at a bar with various bottles behind them, holding a baby
A couple stands at a bar with various bottles behind them, holding a baby

And, despite people being a little caught off guard watching Aoife behind the bar...

Comment by Weird Gyal Yankabish: "I was not expecting her to be making drinks," with surprised emojis
Comment by Weird Gyal Yankabish: "I was not expecting her to be making drinks," with surprised emojis
Social media post with a comment: "The cut to the baby behind the bar is just hilarious ???." Reactions: 11.8K likes
Social media post with a comment: "The cut to the baby behind the bar is just hilarious ???." Reactions: 11.8K likes

A lot pointed out that most of Southeast Asia is like this:

Comments discussing communal support in parenting, with one praising the idea
Comments discussing communal support in parenting, with one praising the idea

BABIES ARE TREATED LIKE CELEBRITIES!

Social media exchange about children receiving special attention: a son in Vietnam and a daughter becoming a diva
Social media exchange about children receiving special attention: a son in Vietnam and a daughter becoming a diva

And the love received by locals is unmatched:

Comment from a single mother about her experiences raising her daughter in Vietnam, highlighting the love they receive
Comment from a single mother about her experiences raising her daughter in Vietnam, highlighting the love they receive

All that being said, there were still some parents who admitted that, while this type of travel ease seems nice, the world is too scary to trust:

Comment expressing anxiety about letting go of their baby due to fear they would disappear. Includes a pensive emoji
Comment expressing anxiety about letting go of their baby due to fear they would disappear. Includes a pensive emoji

BuzzFeed spoke to Kent who explained how they ended up in Southeast Asia. "Aoife spent her first eight months living the desert life in the Middle East before we decided we needed a change of scenery. Originally, we thought about Thailand, but after some research (aka falling down a YouTube rabbit hole), we landed on Vietnam."

His wife Kateryna is also with them, and they plan to travel to more places in Southeast Asia now that they're there.

"The culture here is obsessed with babies in the best way possible. People are naturally drawn to little ones and will go out of their way to entertain them. Aoife has made more friends in Vietnam than I have in my entire life. Everywhere we go — from tiny family-run restaurants to our building’s security guards — people want to say hello to her, play peekaboo, or just shower her with attention," he said.

Smiling baby in a floral-patterned swimsuit sits on a beach mat, with the ocean in the background
Smiling baby in a floral-patterned swimsuit sits on a beach mat, with the ocean in the background

Kent said it often feels like Aoife is the guest of honor while he and Kateryna are just plus-ones — especially at the airport. "When we had a transfer flight from Thailand to Vietnam, we felt like celebrities. From check-in to security and even immigration, people were going out of their way to make sure Aoife was happy (which, in turn, made our lives much easier). But the wildest part? As we walked through the airport, shop staff literally lined up just to wave at her and give her high-fives," he shared.

A person holds a baby sipping fresh coconut water through a straw. They are sitting in an outdoor setting
A person holds a baby sipping fresh coconut water through a straw. They are sitting in an outdoor setting

And Kent was rudely awakened by the fact that his VIP flight experience doesn't exist without a baby. "I recently took a solo flight back to Dubai and suddenly realized that without Aoife, I was just another guy in the queue. I received no special treatment or VIP service. With Aoife, security rushed us through priority lanes, and at immigration, they literally opened a brand-new desk just for her."

Kent said that being able to sit down for a meal and actually eat without the stress of simultaneously entertaining a baby has been a game-changer. "Beyond that, it has been incredible watching Aoife interact with kids from a completely different culture, playing like language barriers don’t even exist. It’s a level of joy that's impossible to explain."

An adult holds a baby while seated in a lush garden setting. Both look directly at the camera. The adult wears a casual shirt and a smartwatch
An adult holds a baby while seated in a lush garden setting. Both look directly at the camera. The adult wears a casual shirt and a smartwatch

"This experience isn't some 'lucky break' that I've stumbled upon — it’s just how things are. It’s a cultural thing. People genuinely love babies; they have a great saying here: 'It takes a village to raise a child.' It’s hard to explain what that saying truly means; you just need to witness it," he added.

You can see this truth played out in other TikToks like this one and this one.

And the free childcare comes with no strings attached! "There’s no expectation of tipping for the extra kindness. We’ll walk into one of our regular spots, and the staff immediately start greeting Aoife like an old friend. That being said, we do always tip — because how could we not?"

In response to the people who say that leaving a baby with a stranger seems too risky, Kent said he always has his daughter's best interest and safety in mind. "I’m not just handing my kid over to random people on the street. We’ve been staying in the same area, and frequenting the same five or six restaurants regularly. The staff know Aoife, and she knows them. When I said in my video that, 'She disappears and shows up in random places,' I did not mean that literally. It was just my very British way of saying she’s always being entertained by familiar faces. Total strangers might ask to touch her hand or give her a little wave, but that’s about it. No one is running off with my kid!"

Overall, Kent's family loves Southeast Asia — to visit or live! "People here live life. They work hard but don’t let money or stress consume them. They take time to enjoy their families, their food, and the little things. Vietnam, in particular, has been incredible. If you’re thinking about visiting, stop thinking and just go. You won’t regret it," he concluded, before adding, "And Aoife is clearly living her best life here!"

Comments discuss travel destinations for families with kids, mentioning Borneo, Thailand, Philippines, Southeast Asia, Japan, and Singapore
Comments discuss travel destinations for families with kids, mentioning Borneo, Thailand, Philippines, Southeast Asia, Japan, and Singapore

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