Woman Offers to Buy Dollar Tree Groceries for Struggling Sister. She Gets a Shocking Reply

A woman is seeking advice from the Reddit community after offering to buy groceries from Dollar Tree for her sister, who is struggling financially — but rejected the offer.

The situation began when the 34-year-old woman’s 43-year-old sister had asked to borrow $40 for groceries, but the younger sister was unable to hand over any cash until the following week, as she had her own expenses to take care of.

“I told her I’m really strapped for cash right now myself as I just had to pay rent, bills, and take my dog to the emergency vet which in itself cost $487. I don’t get paid again until next week,” she explains in the post.

The older sister’s financial situation is complicated by her inability to work due to health issues. Her husband works but doesn’t earn enough to comfortably support them, though he also makes too much to qualify for government assistance.

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In an attempt to help as much as she could, the younger sister offered to purchase groceries from Dollar Tree "and get some stuff to help them get by until he gets paid," she shares in the post.

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But this offer was met with resistance from the older sister, who hung up the phone on the younger woman. The poster tried to persuade her by mentioning a TikTok creator who makes appealing meals using Dollar Tree ingredients, she adds.

The older sister remained adamant in her refusal, citing concerns about the quality of meat available given her dietary preferences. "Her main meal she eats daily is meatloaf which I really can’t afford to get ground beef as it’s so expensive around here right now," the poster shares.

Frustrated by her sister’s response, the younger woman said “beggars can’t be choosers,” giving her an ultimatum: Dollar Tree groceries or go hungry. The older sister declared she’d rather go hungry.

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The younger sister’s reluctance to lend cash, she adds, stems from her past experiences with giving her older sister money in tougher times and finding out she didn't spend it on necessities. “I’ve learned the hard way to never give her cash,” she explains. While she wants to be supportive and give her money, the woman isn’t 100% sure her older sister would use it solely on food.

In an update, the sisters’ father, despite being estranged from the older sister, decided to intervene and send her the $40 for the groceries. The younger sister reports, “And she did show me proof that she spent it on groceries (yes, to make meatloaf and mashed taters). We decided family is family and it was just the right thing to do.”

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